Writer's Block: Significant Change
May. 28th, 2009 06:55 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
perzephone
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I have always changed myself to fill the needs of the person or people I'm with in relationships. I am mutable and adaptive. If they need nurturing, I nurture. If they need strength, I am strong. If they need healing, I heal. If they need cruelty I am cruel. I can be anything from a nature-loving neo-hippy-chick to a leather-clad dominatrix. I am a talented actress - some people can fake orgasms, some people can fake relationships... but I can fake being myself.
I have to say this much - I've never gone into a relationship thinking I could change someone else, or make them change to suit me. Changing myself always 'works' but trying to change someone else to fit my needs when I don't even know who I am anymore is almost impossible.
I have always changed myself to fill the needs of the person or people I'm with in relationships. I am mutable and adaptive. If they need nurturing, I nurture. If they need strength, I am strong. If they need healing, I heal. If they need cruelty I am cruel. I can be anything from a nature-loving neo-hippy-chick to a leather-clad dominatrix. I am a talented actress - some people can fake orgasms, some people can fake relationships... but I can fake being myself.
I have to say this much - I've never gone into a relationship thinking I could change someone else, or make them change to suit me. Changing myself always 'works' but trying to change someone else to fit my needs when I don't even know who I am anymore is almost impossible.
